A poem by Tricia Bates Smith, 3-11-2025

We have made something beautiful. 
Through the angst, passive aggression, 
and manipulation to control our little lives. 
We’ve come through as a couple with two souls /shining brighter than when we began.

We’ve made it past the times of fairy tale partners, 
with thoughts of you being who I expect you to be. 
To now, awe at who we each are revealing of our inner lights, 
as we’ve loosened our fantasy expectations from each other.

We have made something lasting. Children and grandchildren in the this world 
who can benefit from all of the personality muck we have cleared away. 
We’ve ridden the waves of love and frustration, joy and sadness, 
anxiety and peace to find each other still wanting to go further.

What is it that lies ahead for us is unknown. 
What I can rely upon is your love 
which inspires me to be my best self 
so as to return that loving acceptance back to you.