{"id":2804,"date":"2026-05-01T22:34:00","date_gmt":"2026-05-01T22:34:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/triciabatessmith.com\/?p=2804"},"modified":"2026-05-29T11:06:40","modified_gmt":"2026-05-29T11:06:40","slug":"acim-l121","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/triciabatessmith.com:443\/index.php\/2026\/05\/01\/acim-l121\/","title":{"rendered":"ACIM Lesson 121 notes."},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Forgiveness is the key to happiness.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

5-1-2026<\/h1>\n\n\n\n

\u201cEach unforgiving mind presents you with an opportunity to teach your own how to forgive itself. Each one awaits release from hell through you, and turns to you imploringly for Heaven here and now.\u201d<\/em> [CE W-121.7:1-2]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In my meditation practice, I looked upon a person I have never met, the mother of a friend. Earlier today I caught myself judging this person. They don\u2019t seem to make choices that I feel are appropriate for a mother. When I opened my heart, I understood she was a hurt person loving the best she could.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When a person says that they love me but are not giving me what I want, do I judge this as not love? I think so.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I heard the woman, over the phone, say \u2018I love you\u2019 to her daughter. I judged this as false because I expect motherly actions to go along with the statement of love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I have a measuring system based on action. I understand why I have this as I come from a long lineage of hardworking, over extended, manage-everything mothers. My love-language is doing everything for everyone. I recognize in myself that this is more than managing, it is controlling so that my world is OK for me.  But this does not fit with my understanding of love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Things are getting clearer as to why I don\u2019t receive love well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Who am I to judge how someone is able to express love?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Looking in the CE Glossary for \u2018Forgiveness\u2019, it offers \u201cForgiveness, then, is the recognition that there is nothing to forgive.\u201d<\/em> If someone is doing their best based on their life experiences, past and present, this is a new perspective. Humility enters as I realize that I don\u2019t know everything and then compassion enters for the person who has their own journey back to God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here is an affirmation built upon this new insight into myself:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I let go of the belief that people don\u2019t love me. (I made that up as another control over my life.) People love me, extend their love, in the way that expressing love works for them.<\/em> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

5-1-2024<\/h1>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThe unforgiving mind \u2026 offers love no room to be itself.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

My \u2018River of Love\u2019 metaphor has been assisting me regularly this week. Am I in the flow or blocking the flow? The \u2018unforgiving mind\u2019 is when the flow is being blocked. This means that the forgiving mind is happily floating along in the flow of the river of God\u2019s Love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In this world we think of forgiveness as reconciliation with another person so it makes it difficult for may to move into forgiveness. The phrase \u2018forgive and forget\u2019 is the culprit. For man to remain safe, it is best that they keep their distance and not reconcile. But forgiveness is work within; changing one\u2019s perception to knowing that God\u2019s Love is within the \u2018bothersome\u2019 ones as well. Forgiveness heals ourselves. It is choosing to set back into the river and float, letting go, feeling happy as Love\u2019s presence shines within us again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5-1-2023<\/h1>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThe unforgiving mind is full of fear, and offers Love no room to be itself; no place where it can spread its wings in peace and soar above the turmoil of the world.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I made a change yesterday whereby Love has more room to fly within me. The words of the lesson sunk in more deeply than expected. I changed my mind, so I appreciate the invitation offered today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, yesterday we learned of a family friend who lost a loved one to suicide. The pain described in the lesson, attributed to the unforgiving mind, I sense is what drives a person to kill themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I forgave myself. I let go of the past that is no more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cPerhaps you can look at this world in transition and dare to echo God in Genesis [1:31]: behold, it is good \u2026 it is very good. Perhaps you can see transition as an essential part of that goodness that is better than perfection.<\/em>\u201d ~ Brian McLaren, CAC Daily Meditation, 5-1-2023<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5-1-2022<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u201cForgiveness is acquired.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is a shock to learn. I guess this goes back to us all being innocent, light and love, as God created us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cA sin is an idea you taught yourself, forgiveness must be learned by you as well.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, I can\u2019t do this on my own. I see Christ Jesus as the bringer of this lesson to the western world (perhaps the whole world, IDK). Those who dove deep into his teachings, the Way, gained knowledge. My church taught \u2018turn the other cheek\u2019, but I can see how this added to the culture of suffering. Our catechism did not go far enough to achieve this, and it wasn\u2019t exemplified in the hierarchy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The lesson\u2019s practice asks us to see the light in our enemies\u2014this is even a further reach.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Forgiveness requires teachers. This explains why the Course includes a manual for teachers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once we know forgiveness, do we then default to being teachers to others?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

[Yes \u2026 by your actions you will be known as followers of Christ.] _\/\\_<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I made a promise to God. I\u2019m here, ready to learn of forgiveness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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